WEBVTT 00:00:00.580 --> 00:00:04.520 um, Brennan has been, uh, 00:00:04.520 --> 00:00:06.246 he followed me home from work, 00:00:06.246 --> 00:00:07.280 well, originally we broke up, 00:00:07.280 --> 00:00:11.360 and um, he, our breakup was extremely violent, 00:00:11.360 --> 00:00:15.163 um, he, uh, threatened my life, 00:00:15.163 --> 00:00:18.321 he tried to kick down my door, 00:00:18.321 --> 00:00:22.600 he, um, proceeded to then stalk me, 00:00:22.600 --> 00:00:24.480 by following me home from work, 00:00:24.480 --> 00:00:27.160 um, coming to my house unannounced and uninvited 00:00:27.160 --> 00:00:31.080 terrorizing me, calling me notstop and texting me nonstop, 00:00:31.080 --> 00:00:36.680 when i made it very clear to him that i did not want any part of him in my life. 00:00:36.680 --> 00:00:39.480 And he never, uh, respected that. 00:00:39.480 --> 00:00:41.040 [INTERVIEWER] And how long was that going on for? 00:00:41.040 --> 00:00:42.000 [PERSON IN PIC] A month. 00:00:42.000 --> 00:00:46.258 [INTERVIEWER] OK, alright, well, we'll see, hopefully this will be the end of it. 00:00:46.720 --> 00:00:47.943 [PERSON IN PIC] Hopefully! 00:00:49.200 --> 00:00:56.704 [footsteps as people approach] 00:01:21.080 --> 00:01:21.781 Mic check! 00:01:21.781 --> 00:01:23.127 Mic check! 00:01:23.127 --> 00:01:24.010 This is unacceptable! 00:01:24.010 --> 00:01:25.600 THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE! 00:01:25.600 --> 00:01:28.480 I am not interested in any kind of relationship with you! 00:01:28.480 --> 00:01:31.800 I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU! 00:01:31.800 --> 00:01:32.960 I am here today 00:01:32.960 --> 00:01:34.760 I AM HERE TODAY 00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:35.640 To formally demand 00:01:35.640 --> 00:01:37.240 TO FORMALLY DEMAND 00:01:37.240 --> 00:01:38.480 to leave me alone! 00:01:38.480 --> 00:01:40.450 TO LEAVE ME ALONE! 00:01:40.450 --> 00:01:41.800 do not contact me in any way 00:01:41.800 --> 00:01:44.360 DO NOT CONTACT ME IN ANY WAY 00:01:44.360 --> 00:01:46.200 do not call me or text me 00:01:46.200 --> 00:01:48.560 DO NOT CALL ME OR TEXT ME 00:01:48.560 --> 00:01:49.760 do not come to my work 00:01:49.760 --> 00:01:51.360 DO NOT COME TO MY WORK 00:01:51.360 --> 00:01:52.920 do not come to my house 00:01:52.920 --> 00:01:54.440 DO NOT COME TO MY HOUSE! 00:01:54.440 --> 00:01:55.920 do not contact my friends 00:01:55.920 --> 00:01:57.600 DO NOT CONTACT MY FRIENDS! 00:01:57.600 --> 00:02:00.200 do not approach me in person or otherwise 00:02:00.200 --> 00:02:02.760 DO NOT APPROACH ME IN PERSON OR OTHERWISE! 00:02:02.760 --> 00:02:04.480 you are despicable 00:02:04.480 --> 00:02:05.960 YOU ARE DESPICABLE! 00:02:05.960 --> 00:02:06.840 chauvanist 00:02:06.840 --> 00:02:08.035 CHAUVANIST! 00:02:08.035 --> 00:02:09.200 chauvanist pig 00:02:09.200 --> 00:02:11.440 CHAUVANIST PIG! 00:02:11.440 --> 00:02:12.280 chauvanist piece of shit 00:02:12.280 --> 00:02:13.920 CHAUVANIST PIECE OF SHIT! 00:02:13.920 --> 00:02:15.240 your behaviour 00:02:15.240 --> 00:02:16.600 YOUR BEHAVIOUR 00:02:16.600 --> 00:02:17.720 will no longer 00:02:17.720 --> 00:02:18.880 WILL NO LONGER 00:02:18.880 --> 00:02:20.160 be tolerated 00:02:20.160 --> 00:02:21.502 BE TOLERATED 00:02:21.502 --> 00:02:23.200 if you choose to ignore my demands 00:02:23.200 --> 00:02:25.357 IF YOU CHOOSE TO IGNORE MY DEMANDS 00:02:25.357 --> 00:02:27.400 be prepared for consequences 00:02:27.400 --> 00:02:29.400 BE PREPARED FOR CONSEQUENCES! 00:02:29.400 --> 00:02:30.960 FUCK YOU!!! 00:02:30.960 --> 00:02:33.320 FUCK YOU!!! 00:02:33.320 --> 00:02:38.520 [footsteps and voices as they're walking away...] 00:02:50.520 --> 00:02:53.040 [interviewer] So, how do you feel? 00:02:53.040 --> 00:02:55.280 [person in pic] powerful! and happy! 00:02:55.280 --> 00:03:03.120 [interviewer] yeah? um, do you think that it went, um, as well as you had hoped? 00:03:03.120 --> 00:03:04.920 [person in pic] um, it went better. 00:03:04.920 --> 00:03:07.920 i mean, i thought it was going to, like, 00:03:07.920 --> 00:03:09.289 not happen for a second, 00:03:09.289 --> 00:03:12.120 and then, it did [laughing] 00:03:12.120 --> 00:03:18.480 [interviewer] um, what do you think particularly was like, um, 00:03:18.480 --> 00:03:23.360 what do you think worked? what do you think was effective? 00:03:23.360 --> 00:03:25.040 [ person in pic] the mic check was extremely effective, 00:03:25.040 --> 00:03:28.960 because when he went inside, he obviously still heard us all, 00:03:28.960 --> 00:03:32.920 um, i think it was effective that we had so many people with us. 00:03:32.920 --> 00:03:39.243 i think it was effective that, um, we left a demand letter on his fucking car. 00:03:39.243 --> 00:03:40.264 [interviewer] you left two right? 00:03:40.264 --> 00:03:42.240 [person in pic] we left one on his porch too, 00:03:42.240 --> 00:03:46.440 it went really good. 00:03:46.440 --> 00:03:51.360 [interviewer] cool, and um, do you think he got the message? 00:03:51.360 --> 00:03:53.240 do you think he'll leave you alone now? 00:03:53.240 --> 00:03:54.320 [person in pic] i hope so. 00:03:54.320 --> 00:03:56.840 im still nervous, cause i just know him, and... 00:03:56.840 --> 00:04:03.320 as you... in the video you see how violent, hopefully you see how violent he is, 00:04:03.320 --> 00:04:07.280 and i'm just hoping that he fucking got the message. 00:04:07.280 --> 00:04:14.480 [interviewer] um, cool, and so i guess, where do you, what would you say to someone else 00:04:14.480 --> 00:04:16.320 who might be in your situation? 00:04:16.320 --> 00:04:19.120 [person in pic] um, definitely do this, 00:04:19.120 --> 00:04:24.040 because it's very important to hold people accountable for their actions, 00:04:24.040 --> 00:04:28.000 um, and to never let, if someone's ever treating you that way, 00:04:28.000 --> 00:04:30.520 to not let them just continue treating you that way, 00:04:30.520 --> 00:04:37.080 or, like, you need to let them know that that's not acceptable. 00:04:37.080 --> 00:04:42.400 Also, it feels really powerful to have fucking 28 of your friends behind you, 00:04:42.400 --> 00:04:44.720 and screaming with you, 00:04:44.720 --> 00:04:46.880 even if they dont know the whole story, 00:04:46.880 --> 00:04:49.011 they just believe you.