WEBVTT 00:00:08.053 --> 00:00:12.364 Mindfulness could be everything, like eating, walking or playing. 00:00:12.375 --> 00:00:14.357 Everything could be mindfulness. 00:00:14.357 --> 00:00:17.325 - When you do something, you know you are doing it. 00:00:17.325 --> 00:00:23.386 So whether you are walking, eating, sitting, or even playing a video game, 00:00:23.386 --> 00:00:27.154 you know what you are doing, so your mind is not somewhere else. 00:00:27.154 --> 00:00:31.275 When we share mindfulness with children, they really enjoy it. 00:00:31.275 --> 00:00:36.616 They see that the way are together as a group of kids, has a real quality. 00:00:36.616 --> 00:00:43.805 It is so important to have a living example of people who live happily and peacefully 00:00:43.805 --> 00:00:48.480 and to show live children like Jay, 00:00:48.480 --> 00:00:53.155 who know how to speak lovingly to other people 00:00:53.155 --> 00:00:57.832 and to listen deeply, to really hear what someone is saying 00:00:57.832 --> 00:01:03.362 It is important for other kids to see kids, families and adults 00:01:03.362 --> 00:01:09.407 who live in a way that is awakened, trying to really take care of themselves, 00:01:09.407 --> 00:01:12.667 take care of each other, take care of the earth, 00:01:12.667 --> 00:01:14.873 to be kind to themselves, 00:01:14.873 --> 00:01:19.428 and to everything that makes up who we are, which is everything. 00:01:19.428 --> 00:01:23.786 - Sometimes, if you are shouting with your mother or father, 00:01:23.786 --> 00:01:27.372 you could actually think before you say something: 00:01:27.372 --> 00:01:30.486 Would it be mindful or could it hurt them? 00:01:30.486 --> 00:01:33.619 I think that is one of the things I would learn. 00:01:33.619 --> 00:01:39.250 Or at school for instance, if you breathe or just sit down or take a walk 00:01:39.250 --> 00:01:44.126 a few minutes before you have a test, it really helps you. 00:01:45.761 --> 00:01:47.540 The vase of water is our mind. 00:01:47.540 --> 00:01:52.018 And the different colors of sand are our thoughts and feelings. 00:01:52.018 --> 00:01:55.650 What kinds of thoughts do you have when waking up? 00:01:55.650 --> 00:02:00.050 Pick a color of sand that feels right for your feelings or thoughts. 00:02:05.031 --> 00:02:10.507 This is how our minds are when we are in a hurry, stressed, angry or upset. 00:02:10.507 --> 00:02:13.619 Can you see things clearly in this state? 00:02:14.026 --> 00:02:17.660 Let's breathe with the bell and observe all the sand 00:02:17.660 --> 00:02:21.018 as it slowly settles to the bottom of the jar. 00:02:21.018 --> 00:02:22.740 (Bell) 00:02:22.740 --> 00:02:39.081 (Deep breathing) 00:02:41.018 --> 00:02:43.997 This is what happens to our minds when we meditate, 00:02:43.997 --> 00:02:47.236 when we are mindful of our body and of our breathing. 00:02:47.236 --> 00:02:49.372 What is the water like now? 00:02:49.872 --> 00:02:53.147 The thoughts and feelings can still be there in our minds 00:02:53.147 --> 00:02:55.426 but rest peacefully at the bottom, 00:02:55.426 --> 00:02:59.033 because we know how to return to our breathing to calm them. 00:02:59.033 --> 00:03:03.001 - If people bully me, I look into why they bully me. 00:03:03.831 --> 00:03:06.401 Maybe they have their own suffering, 00:03:06.401 --> 00:03:09.756 or they see something in me that makes them suffer. 00:03:10.216 --> 00:03:13.101 Or maybe their family has problems 00:03:13.101 --> 00:03:17.562 and they want to do something to make people unhappy, 00:03:17.562 --> 00:03:19.900 to make themselves feel good. 00:03:19.900 --> 00:03:22.790 We need to understand why they do that. 00:03:22.790 --> 00:03:27.089 - If we cannot do something to stop what the other person is doing 00:03:27.089 --> 00:03:30.815 we can at least take care of what is happening in us. 00:03:30.815 --> 00:03:34.092 So if we feel sad, angry or hurt, 00:03:34.092 --> 00:03:37.519 we can know that those feelings are there in us 00:03:37.519 --> 00:03:42.104 and that those feelings are ok, you are normal to have that feeling. 00:03:42.104 --> 00:03:46.273 So we can know that we need to be there for that feeling, 00:03:46.273 --> 00:03:51.775 in the same way as we take care of our younger brother when he is sad or upset. 00:03:51.775 --> 00:03:57.430 The feeling in us is like our little brother or sister that we need to take care of. 00:03:57.430 --> 00:04:03.672 So they need a very lively family, a community of people 00:04:03.672 --> 00:04:08.957 that they can relate to and enjoy 00:04:09.460 --> 00:04:16.157 And they need not only real people but also superheroes and comics, 00:04:20.764 --> 00:04:27.352 who can show in a very concrete way how we can live and be peace in our daily life. 00:04:27.352 --> 00:04:33.378 and how we can change the world through how we are in each moment. 00:04:35.824 --> 00:04:39.805 (laughing) 00:04:41.138 --> 00:04:43.054 They didn't teach me how to float! 00:04:43.054 --> 00:04:45.615 - Where is the part about floating? 00:04:45.615 --> 00:04:46.563 (laughing)