1 00:00:08,053 --> 00:00:12,364 Mindfulness could be everything, like eating, walking or playing. 2 00:00:12,375 --> 00:00:14,357 Everything could be mindfulness. 3 00:00:14,357 --> 00:00:17,325 - When you do something, you know you are doing it. 4 00:00:17,325 --> 00:00:23,386 So whether you are walking, eating, sitting, or even playing a video game, 5 00:00:23,386 --> 00:00:27,154 you know what you are doing, so your mind is not somewhere else. 6 00:00:27,154 --> 00:00:31,275 When we share mindfulness with children, they really enjoy it. 7 00:00:31,275 --> 00:00:36,616 They see that the way are together as a group of kids, has a real quality. 8 00:00:36,616 --> 00:00:43,805 It is so important to have a living example of people who live happily and peacefully 9 00:00:43,805 --> 00:00:48,480 and to show live children like Jay, 10 00:00:48,480 --> 00:00:53,155 who know how to speak lovingly to other people 11 00:00:53,155 --> 00:00:57,832 and to listen deeply, to really hear what someone is saying 12 00:00:57,832 --> 00:01:03,362 It is important for other kids to see kids, families and adults 13 00:01:03,362 --> 00:01:09,407 who live in a way that is awakened, trying to really take care of themselves, 14 00:01:09,407 --> 00:01:12,667 take care of each other, take care of the earth, 15 00:01:12,667 --> 00:01:14,873 to be kind to themselves, 16 00:01:14,873 --> 00:01:19,428 and to everything that makes up who we are, which is everything. 17 00:01:19,428 --> 00:01:23,786 - Sometimes, if you are shouting with your mother or father, 18 00:01:23,786 --> 00:01:27,372 you could actually think before you say something: 19 00:01:27,372 --> 00:01:30,486 Would it be mindful or could it hurt them? 20 00:01:30,486 --> 00:01:33,619 I think that is one of the things I would learn. 21 00:01:33,619 --> 00:01:39,250 Or at school for instance, if you breathe or just sit down or take a walk 22 00:01:39,250 --> 00:01:44,126 a few minutes before you have a test, it really helps you. 23 00:01:45,761 --> 00:01:47,540 The vase of water is our mind. 24 00:01:47,540 --> 00:01:52,018 And the different colors of sand are our thoughts and feelings. 25 00:01:52,018 --> 00:01:55,650 What kinds of thoughts do you have when waking up? 26 00:01:55,650 --> 00:02:00,050 Pick a color of sand that feels right for your feelings or thoughts. 27 00:02:05,031 --> 00:02:10,507 This is how our minds are when we are in a hurry, stressed, angry or upset. 28 00:02:10,507 --> 00:02:13,619 Can you see things clearly in this state? 29 00:02:14,026 --> 00:02:17,660 Let's breathe with the bell and observe all the sand 30 00:02:17,660 --> 00:02:21,018 as it slowly settles to the bottom of the jar. 31 00:02:21,018 --> 00:02:22,740 (Bell) 32 00:02:22,740 --> 00:02:39,081 (Deep breathing) 33 00:02:41,018 --> 00:02:43,997 This is what happens to our minds when we meditate, 34 00:02:43,997 --> 00:02:47,236 when we are mindful of our body and of our breathing. 35 00:02:47,236 --> 00:02:49,372 What is the water like now? 36 00:02:49,872 --> 00:02:53,147 The thoughts and feelings can still be there in our minds 37 00:02:53,147 --> 00:02:55,426 but rest peacefully at the bottom, 38 00:02:55,426 --> 00:02:59,033 because we know how to return to our breathing to calm them. 39 00:02:59,033 --> 00:03:03,001 - If people bully me, I look into why they bully me. 40 00:03:03,831 --> 00:03:06,401 Maybe they have their own suffering, 41 00:03:06,401 --> 00:03:09,756 or they see something in me that makes them suffer. 42 00:03:10,216 --> 00:03:13,101 Or maybe their family has problems 43 00:03:13,101 --> 00:03:17,562 and they want to do something to make people unhappy, 44 00:03:17,562 --> 00:03:19,900 to make themselves feel good. 45 00:03:19,900 --> 00:03:22,790 We need to understand why they do that. 46 00:03:22,790 --> 00:03:27,089 - If we cannot do something to stop what the other person is doing 47 00:03:27,089 --> 00:03:30,815 we can at least take care of what is happening in us. 48 00:03:30,815 --> 00:03:34,092 So if we feel sad, angry or hurt, 49 00:03:34,092 --> 00:03:37,519 we can know that those feelings are there in us 50 00:03:37,519 --> 00:03:42,104 and that those feelings are ok, you are normal to have that feeling. 51 00:03:42,104 --> 00:03:46,273 So we can know that we need to be there for that feeling, 52 00:03:46,273 --> 00:03:51,775 in the same way as we take care of our younger brother when he is sad or upset. 53 00:03:51,775 --> 00:03:57,430 The feeling in us is like our little brother or sister that we need to take care of. 54 00:03:57,430 --> 00:04:03,672 So they need a very lively family, a community of people 55 00:04:03,672 --> 00:04:08,957 that they can relate to and enjoy 56 00:04:09,460 --> 00:04:16,157 And they need not only real people but also superheroes and comics, 57 00:04:20,764 --> 00:04:27,352 who can show in a very concrete way how we can live and be peace in our daily life. 58 00:04:27,352 --> 00:04:33,378 and how we can change the world through how we are in each moment. 59 00:04:35,824 --> 00:04:39,805 (laughing) 60 00:04:41,138 --> 00:04:43,054 They didn't teach me how to float! 61 00:04:43,054 --> 00:04:45,615 - Where is the part about floating? 62 00:04:45,615 --> 00:04:46,563 (laughing)