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Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.40,0:00:14.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Večeras ću vam pričati
Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.75,0:00:16.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,o izlaženju iz ormana,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:16.12,0:00:17.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali ne u tradicionalnom smislu,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.76,0:00:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne samo o gej ormanu.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.90,0:00:21.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mislim da svi imamo ormane.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.23,0:00:24.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tvoj orman je možda reći nekome
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.08,0:00:25.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da je voliš po prvi put,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.87,0:00:27.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili reći nekome da si trudna,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.14,0:00:29.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili reći nekome da imaš rak,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.50,0:00:32.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili bilo šta drugo od teških razgovora
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.99,0:00:34.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koje vodimo kroz naše živote.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.62,0:00:38.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sve što je orman je težak razgovor,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.82,0:00:41.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i pored toga što se naše teme\Nstrahovito razlikuju,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.77,0:00:44.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,iskustvo toga da budeš u ormanu
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.81,0:00:46.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i izađeš iz njega je univerzalno.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.71,0:00:49.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Strašno je, mrzimo to,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.06,0:00:51.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i mora da se učini.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.14,0:00:55.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pre nekoliko godina, radila sam u mestu\Nzvanom "South Side Walnut",
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.77,0:00:57.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)\N
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.73,0:00:59.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lokalnom gradskom restoranu,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.56,0:01:00.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i tokom mog rada tamo
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.89,0:01:04.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prolazila sam kroz faze\Nmiltantnog lezbijskog intenziteta:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.50,0:01:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.00,0:01:07.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nisam brijala pazuhe,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.71,0:01:10.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,citirala sam tekstove\NAni Difranko kao gospel.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.22,0:01:13.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I u zavisnosti od toga\Nkoliko su mi pantalone
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.62,0:01:16.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bile vrećaste i koliko sam\Nnedavno obrijala glavu,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.31,0:01:17.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,postavljali su mi pitanje,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.81,0:01:19.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,uglavnom mala deca:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.22,0:01:23.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hmm... jesi li ti dečak ili devojčica?"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.97,0:01:26.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nastala bi neprijatna tišina za stolom.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.86,0:01:29.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stisnula bih malo jače zube,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.17,0:01:32.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,držala bih lonče kafe s malo više besa.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.29,0:01:35.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tata bi neprijatno listao svoje novine
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.83,0:01:38.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a mama bi uperila hladan pogled na dete.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.50,0:01:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali ja ne bih rekla ništa,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.17,0:01:41.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i kipela bih iznutra.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.87,0:01:43.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Došla sam do toga da sam svaki put
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.52,0:01:45.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kad bih došla do stola za kojim je
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.21,0:01:46.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dete između 3 i 10 godina,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.45,0:01:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bila spremna za svađu.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.90,0:01:49.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.62,0:01:51.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I to je grozan osećaj.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.42,0:01:53.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obećala sam sebi, sledeći put,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.39,0:01:54.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reći ću nešto.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.55,0:01:57.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obaviću taj teški razgovor.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.78,0:01:59.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tako, za par nedelja, ponovilo se.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.98,0:02:02.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Jesi li ti dečak ili devojčica?"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.09,0:02:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Poznata tišina,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.02,0:02:06.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali ovaj put sam spremna,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.26,0:02:10.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i ima da napravim Osnove ženskih studija\Nza ovim stolom.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.90,0:02:12.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.66,0:02:14.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imam svoje citate Beti Fridan,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.94,0:02:16.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imam svoje citate Glorije Stajnem.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.98,0:02:19.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Čak imam nesto iz "Vagininih monologa"\Nšto ću citirati.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.47,0:02:22.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tako, duboko udahnem\Ni pogledam dole,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.98,0:02:25.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a u mene bulji
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.45,0:02:27.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,četvorogodišnja devojčica\Nu ružičastoj haljini,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.85,0:02:30.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nije izazov na feministički dvoboj,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.25,0:02:32.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,samo dete s pitanjem:
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.17,0:02:35.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Jesi li ti dečak ili devojčica"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.29,0:02:37.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tako, još jednom duboko udahnem,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.09,0:02:38.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,čučnem do nje, i kažem,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.22,0:02:40.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hej, znam da je malo zbunjujuće.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.59,0:02:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imam kratku kosu kao dečak,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.96,0:02:43.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i nosim mušku odeću,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.16,0:02:44.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali ja sam devojčica,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.31,0:02:46.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i znaš kako ponekad voliš da nosiš\Nsvoju roze haljinu,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.88,0:02:48.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a ponekad volis da nosiš\Nudobnu pidžamu?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.74,0:02:50.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pa, ja sam više tip devojke\Nza udobne pidžame."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.88,0:02:52.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.64,0:02:54.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A dete me pogleda pravo u oči,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.47,0:02:55.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bez treptaja i kaže:
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.54,0:02:58.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Moja omiljena pidžama je ljubičasta,\Nsa ribom na njoj.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.23,0:03:00.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mogu li, molim vas, dobiti palačinku?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.24,0:03:02.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.39,0:03:04.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I to je bilo to. Samo -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.23,0:03:07.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, dobro. Ti si devojčica.\NMože ta palačinka?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.43,0:03:08.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.56,0:03:12.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bio je to najlakši "teški" razgovor\Nkoji sam ikad vodila.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.43,0:03:14.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A zašto?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.60,0:03:16.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zato što smo "devojčica s palačinkom" i ja
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.64,0:03:18.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bile iskrene jedna prema drugoj.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.15,0:03:20.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kao i mnogi od nas,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.48,0:03:22.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,živela sam u nekoliko ormana\Nu svom životu, i da,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.84,0:03:25.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,najčešće, moji zidovi\Nispadnu duginih boja.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.08,0:03:27.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali unutra, u mraku,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.08,0:03:30.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne znaš koje su boje zidovi.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.21,0:03:31.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Samo znaš kako je
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.71,0:03:33.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,živeti u ormanu.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.71,0:03:36.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I zapravo, moj orman\Nnije ništa drugačiji od tvog
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.18,0:03:38.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili tvog,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.49,0:03:40.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili tvog.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.05,0:03:42.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Naravno, daću vam 100 razloga
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.32,0:03:44.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,zašto je moje izlaženje iz ormana\Nteže od vašeg,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.68,0:03:45.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali evo jedne stvari:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.70,0:03:47.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Teško nije relativno.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.03,0:03:48.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Teško je teško.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.76,0:03:49.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ko mi može reći
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.58,0:03:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da je objasniti nekom
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.22,0:03:52.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da si bankrotirao
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.52,0:03:53.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,teže nego reći nekome
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.57,0:03:54.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da si ga prevario?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.73,0:03:55.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ko mi može reći
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.83,0:03:57.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da je njegova priča izlaženja
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.23,0:03:59.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,teža nego reći svom petogodišnjem detetu
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.23,0:04:00.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da se rastajete?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.17,0:04:01.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne postoji teže,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.28,0:04:03.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,postoji samo teško.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.79,0:04:05.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Treba prestati vrednovati naše teško
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.85,0:04:07.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nasuprot tuđih
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.11,0:04:09.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da se osećamo bolje ili gore\Nu vezi sa svojim ormanima
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.72,0:04:11.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i samo se pomiriti sa činjenicom
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.36,0:04:13.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da nam je svima teško.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.59,0:04:15.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,U nekom trenutku života,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.17,0:04:16.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,svi živimo u ormanu,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.88,0:04:18.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i možda se čini sigurnim,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.61,0:04:20.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili bar sigurnijim od onoga
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.56,0:04:22.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,što je s druge strane vrata.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.16,0:04:23.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali ja sam ovde da vam kažem
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.78,0:04:25.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bez obzira od čega su vaši zidovi,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.77,0:04:28.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,orman nije mesto za život.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.57,0:04:30.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Klicanje)\N(Aplauz)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.74,0:04:32.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hvala.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.01,0:04:36.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zašto je onda izlazak iz tog ormana,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.31,0:04:37.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,zašto je taj razgovor
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.71,0:04:39.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,toliko težak?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.11,0:04:41.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zato što je stresno.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.80,0:04:43.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Toliko smo zabrninuti za reakciju
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.82,0:04:45.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,druge osobe, i s razlogom.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.98,0:04:47.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da li će se naljutiti?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.45,0:04:48.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Biti tužni?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.31,0:04:49.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Razočarani?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.38,0:04:50.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da li ćemo izgubiti prijatelja?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.85,0:04:51.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Roditelja?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.73,0:04:52.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ljubavnika?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.60,0:04:54.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ovi razgovori izazivaju stres.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.63,0:04:56.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Razmislimo o stresu na minut.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.93,0:04:59.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stres je prirodna reakcija vašeg tela.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.03,0:05:01.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kada se suočite sa navodnom pretnjom,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.90,0:05:03.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ključna reč, navodnom,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.25,0:05:05.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,vaš hipotalamus oglasi alarm,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.57,0:05:06.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a adrenalin i kortizol
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.94,0:05:08.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kreću da kuljaju vašim venama.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.90,0:05:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ovo je poznato kao efekat
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.21,0:05:12.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bori se ili beži.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.65,0:05:14.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ponekad se potučete,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.01,0:05:15.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ponekad bežite.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.15,0:05:17.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ovo je potpuno normalna reakcija.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.45,0:05:19.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I potiče iz vremena
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.19,0:05:22.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kada je ta pretnja bila\Nda vas juri runasti mamut.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.95,0:05:24.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Problem je u tome
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.16,0:05:25.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,što vaš hipotalamus nema pojma
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.89,0:05:27.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da li vas juri runasti mamut
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.66,0:05:29.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili vam je samo kompjuter u kvaru
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.25,0:05:31.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili vam se pojavila rodbina na vratima
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.16,0:05:33.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili samo što niste\Niskočili iza aviona
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.04,0:05:34.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili morate da kažete\Nnekome koga volite
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.95,0:05:36.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da imate tumor na mozgu.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.29,0:05:37.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Razlika je u tome
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.56,0:05:39.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,što vas runasti mamut juri
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.66,0:05:40.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,možda 10 minuta.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.97,0:05:42.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ako ne vodite te teške razgovore,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.71,0:05:44.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to može da traje godinama,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.14,0:05:48.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a vaše telo ne može\Nda izađe na kraj s time.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.08,0:05:50.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hronično izlaganje adrenalinu i kortizolu
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.72,0:05:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remeti skoro svaki sistem u vašem telu
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.46,0:05:55.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i može dovesti do anksioznosti,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.10,0:05:56.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,depresije, bolesti srca,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.62,0:05:57.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,samo da navedem neke.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.96,0:05:59.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kada ne vodite teške razgovore,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.03,0:06:03.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kada istinu o sebi čuvate kao tajnu,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.07,0:06:05.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,zapravo držite bombu.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.72,0:06:08.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zamislite se
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.39,0:06:10.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pre 20 godina.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.00,0:06:12.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ja,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.82,0:06:14.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ja sam imala konjski repić,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.61,0:06:15.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,haljinu bez bretela,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.98,0:06:17.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i cipele sa visokom štiklom.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.46,0:06:19.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nisam bila militantna lezbejka
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.40,0:06:22.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,spremna na svađu sa četvorogodišnjakom\Nkoji bi naišao u kafić.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.35,0:06:23.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.98,0:06:25.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bila sam smrznuta od straha,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.81,0:06:27.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sklupčana u uglu
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.08,0:06:29.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,svog ormana crnog kao ugalj
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.26,0:06:31.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stiskajući svoju gej bombu,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.66,0:06:33.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i pokretanje jednog mišića
Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.50,0:06:35.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bila je najstrašnija stvar
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.16,0:06:37.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koju sam ikad uradila.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.44,0:06:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moja porodica,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.84,0:06:39.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prijatelji,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.57,0:06:40.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,potpuni stranci -
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.42,0:06:41.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,potraćila sam čitav život
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.66,0:06:43.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pokušavajući da ne razočaram te ljude,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.74,0:06:46.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a zatim sam okretala\Nčitav svet naopačke
Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.41,0:06:47.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,namerno.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.54,0:06:50.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Palila sam stranice propisa
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.30,0:06:52.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koje sam tako dugo sledila,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.45,0:06:53.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali ako ne bacite tu bombu,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.90,0:06:55.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ubiće vas.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.84,0:06:58.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jedno od najupečatljivijih\Nbacanja bombe
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.32,0:06:59.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bilo je na sestrinom venčanju.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.77,0:07:02.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.46,0:07:04.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bio je to prvi put da su mnogi prisutni
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.86,0:07:06.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,saznali da sam gej,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.30,0:07:08.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i tako radeći kumine dužnosti,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.01,0:07:10.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u svojoj crnoj haljini i štiklama,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.69,0:07:11.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hodala sam oko stolova,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.83,0:07:14.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i konačno došla do stola\Nprijatelja mojih roditelja,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.31,0:07:15.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ljudi koji su me znali godinama.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.90,0:07:18.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I posle malo ćaskanja,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.81,0:07:20.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jedna je žena viknula:
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.31,0:07:22.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Volim Nejtana Lejna!"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.18,0:07:25.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I započela je bitka
Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.04,0:07:26.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gej povezivanja.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.15,0:07:27.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Eš, jesi li ikada bila u Kastru?"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.77,0:07:30.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pa da, zapravo,\Nimamo prijatelje u San Francisku."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.22,0:07:31.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Nikada nismo bili tamo
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.32,0:07:33.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali čuli smo da je neverovatno."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.05,0:07:34.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Eš, znaš li mog frizera Antonija?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.82,0:07:38.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zaista je dobar i nije nikada\Npričao o devojci."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.09,0:07:39.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Eš, koja ti je omiljena serija?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.66,0:07:41.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Naša je Vil i Grejs.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.83,0:07:43.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I znaš koga volimo? Džeka.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.47,0:07:44.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Džek nam je najdraži."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.80,0:07:47.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zatim je jedna žena zastala,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.66,0:07:50.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,očajnički želeći da pokaže podršku,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.30,0:07:52.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i da mi do znanja da je na mojoj strani,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.67,0:07:54.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i napokon je izvalila:
Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.04,0:07:57.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pa, ponekad moj muž nosi\Nružičaste košulje."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.71,0:08:00.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.12,0:08:02.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I imala sam izbor u tom trenutku,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.15,0:08:04.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kao što svi bacači bombi imaju.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.21,0:08:06.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mogla sam se vratiti svojoj devojci
Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.22,0:08:08.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i svom stolu koji voli gejeve,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.01,0:08:09.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i rugati se njihovim odgovorima,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.09,0:08:11.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,izgrditi njihovu nerečitost
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.46,0:08:12.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i nesposobnost da preskoče
Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.89,0:08:14.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,politički ispravne gej obruče
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.29,0:08:15.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koje sam donela,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.43,0:08:16.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili sam mogla
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.58,0:08:18.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,saosećati sa njima
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.07,0:08:19.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i shvatiti da je to bila
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.47,0:08:21.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jedna od najtežih stvari\Nkoju su ikada učinili,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.83,0:08:23.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to započinjanje
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.34,0:08:24.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i vođenje tog razgovora
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.44,0:08:27.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,za njih je bilo izlaženje iz ormana.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.61,0:08:28.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Naravno, bilo bi lako
Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.98,0:08:30.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pokazati gde su podbacili.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.56,0:08:31.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mnogo je teže
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.71,0:08:33.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,izaći im u susret
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.11,0:08:34.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i prihvatiti činjenicu
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.25,0:08:35.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da su se trudili.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.18,0:08:37.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A šta drugo možete tražiti od nekoga
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.78,0:08:39.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nego da se trudi?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.45,0:08:42.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ako ćete biti iskreni s nekim,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.24,0:08:43.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,morate biti spremni
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.54,0:08:45.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,na povratnu iskrenost,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.09,0:08:48.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Teški razgovori i dalje nisu\Nmoje područje.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.86,0:08:50.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pitajte bilo koga sa kim sam izlazila.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.26,0:08:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali poboljšavam se,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.04,0:08:54.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i sledim ono što zovem
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.32,0:08:56.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tri principa "devojčice s palačinkama".
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.30,0:08:57.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sada, molim vas,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.04,0:08:59.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gledajte na ovo\Nkroz jednu gej prizmu,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.89,0:09:00.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali znajte
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.91,0:09:03.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da sve što treba\Nza izlazak iz bilo kog ormana
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.10,0:09:04.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u suštini je isto.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.25,0:09:06.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Broj jedan:
Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.61,0:09:07.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,budite autentični.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.85,0:09:09.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sklonite oklop. Budite svoji.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.24,0:09:10.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To dete u kafiću
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.28,0:09:11.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nije imalo oklop,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.35,0:09:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali ja sam bila spremna za bitku.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.32,0:09:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Glupi hipotalamus.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.92,0:09:18.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ako želite da neko bude\Niskren sa vama,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.16,0:09:20.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,treba da zna da i vi krvarite.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.03,0:09:21.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Broj dva:
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.84,0:09:22.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,budite direktni.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.70,0:09:24.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Samo recite. Strgnite flaster.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.18,0:09:25.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ako znate da ste gej,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.23,0:09:26.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,samo recite.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.42,0:09:28.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ako kažete roditeljima\Nda ste možda gej,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.50,0:09:30.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gajiće nadu\Nda će se to možda promeniti.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.43,0:09:31.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne dajte im
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.31,0:09:32.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,taj tračak lažne nade.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.88,0:09:34.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.83,0:09:36.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I broj tri,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.45,0:09:37.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i najvažnije -
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.92,0:09:42.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smeh)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.25,0:09:44.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nemojte se pravdati.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.05,0:09:47.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Govorite istinu.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.99,0:09:50.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nikad se nemojte pravdati za to.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.82,0:09:54.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Neki ljudi će možda biti povređeni,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.04,0:09:55.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i svakako,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.10,0:09:56.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,izvinite se za to što ste uradili,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.100,0:10:00.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali nikada se ne izvinjavajte\Nza ono što jeste.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.87,0:10:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I da, možda će neki biti razočarani,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.14,0:10:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali to je na njima,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.77,0:10:06.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne na vama.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.18,0:10:07.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To su njihova očekivanja od vas,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.94,0:10:08.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne vaša.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.68,0:10:10.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To je njihova priča,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.38,0:10:12.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne vaša.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.21,0:10:14.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jedina priča koja je bitna
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.68,0:10:16.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,je ona koju vi želite da napišete.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.63,0:10:19.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zato, sledeći put,\Nkada se nađete
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.19,0:10:20.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u ormanu crnom kao ugalj,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.52,0:10:21.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,držeći svoju bombu,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.52,0:10:24.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,znajte da smo svi tamo bili.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.22,0:10:26.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I možete se osetiti usamljenima,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.38,0:10:27.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali niste.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.03,0:10:29.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I svi znamo da je teško,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.43,0:10:31.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali trebaš nam ovde, napolju,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.56,0:10:33.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bez obzira od čega\Nsu tvoji zidovi napravljeni
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.77,0:10:35.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jer vam garantujem da ima i drugih
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.64,0:10:37.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koji vire kroz ključaonice
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.11,0:10:38.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,svojih ormana
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.18,0:10:39.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tražeći hrabru dušu
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.41,0:10:40.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da razvali vrata,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.48,0:10:42.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i zato budite ta osoba
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.78,0:10:45.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i pokažite svetu\Nda smo veći od svojih ormana
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.31,0:10:47.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i da orman nije mesto
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.35,0:10:50.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,za čovekov stvarni život.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.15,0:10:52.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bolder, hvala vam.\NUživajte u ostatku večeri.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.55,0:10:54.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Klicanje)\N(Aplauz)