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Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.21,0:00:12.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Hi Heavy Petters!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.20,0:00:12.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Hi
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.100,0:00:15.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: We're The Luxery-Legays
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.54,0:00:19.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm, of course, Jessica and this is my trophy wife, Majestic
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.68,0:00:23.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're going to do a Q&A, so let's get started
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.38,0:00:29.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Yeah, usually we choose questions and talk about them first, but we were like,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.98,0:00:37.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Maybe it'd be better and more reflective of our personalities if we just grabbed some questions
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.95,0:00:39.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Yeah, let's just
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.02,0:00:41.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: had a relaxing beverage and talked about sex
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.92,0:00:45.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Yeah, we'll include you in this process with us
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.16,0:00:47.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, you're first
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.07,0:00:53.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Okay, um, "Hi, I love the Joque Harness you posted but I can't blow a whole paycheck on something
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.15,0:00:57.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like that" [I feel you] "I had a harness that fit me sort of but the cock itself was too low and the
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.88,0:01:04.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,back kept falling off my butt. We accidentally left it at his grandma's house anyway. I was wondering
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.03,0:01:07.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you could recommend a cheaper solution to my problem"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.59,0:01:10.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Very kinky, I love it. Sex at Nana's
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.78,0:01:13.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Would love to know what Nana thought about it
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.08,0:01:16.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe she was excited for you
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.05,0:01:23.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One time I tried to make my own strap-on out of an intertube and, I hate crafting so I found it
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.19,0:01:26.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really difficult. I am slowly coming around to crafting
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.54,0:01:28.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Its like our only difference
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.12,0:01:30.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Yeah, its our only difference. We're basically
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.82,0:01:32.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: The great divide
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.92,0:01:38.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Right, intertube. You can use intertube to make a strap-on
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.14,0:01:42.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can make it to fit your body, its a really sturdy material, also coincidentally
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.76,0:01:47.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,intertubes make really good floggers. I think there's an Instructable on that and
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.68,0:01:49.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will post
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.30,0:01:51.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Yeah we'll post that below
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.08,0:01:52.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Yeah, WE will post both below
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.48,0:01:53.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Collectively
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.76,0:01:57.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So down with bikes, up with floggers and strap-ons
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.22,0:01:59.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.14,0:02:00.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: What a guy
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.69,0:02:05.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Next, "I'm 21 and I've never had an orgasm. I've had 8 partners at several levels of
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.41,0:02:13.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,commitment. I've tried masturbation, oral sex, toys, on top, from behind, hands down, upside down
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.71,0:02:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and every which way of every combination. [Clearly]
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.24,0:02:24.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Still no orgasm. I get very turned on and everything feels good, then all of a sudden everything stops
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.54,0:02:30.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my response goes away without any resolution. 60 to 0 is the best way to describe it
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.57,0:02:35.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is this physical or mental? Any advice would be appreciated"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.46,0:02:37.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That sound horrible
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.09,0:02:38.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: that sounds really frustrating
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.94,0:02:44.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Its really really annoying to really want to do something and not be able to do it
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.08,0:02:49.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I think there's no way for us to tell you if its physical or mental
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.49,0:02:51.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there aren't a lot of physical treatments out there for that sort of thing
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.20,0:02:58.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A lot of the times it is mental, but it also might just be harder for you to have an orgasm
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.47,0:03:05.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some people can't have orgasms, some people find it more difficult, some people are so
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.64,0:03:08.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,focused on that, that they can't come
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.75,0:03:10.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's a thing that happens
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.40,0:03:15.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: totally and it sounds like you're just really focused on this end goal
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.04,0:03:19.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you should just be relaxing and enjoying and being in the moment and enjoying that you're
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.71,0:03:24.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fucking and having a great time
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.49,0:03:27.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, slow and steady wins the race
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.34,0:03:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you really just give her, going to this orgasm place, like you know, just like enjoy yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.00,0:03:38.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Because of the way we understand desire, and like mainstream culture, the orgasm
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.04,0:03:42.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the center of sex and that's not, that can't be the focus for a lot of people
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.82,0:03:48.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because some people just can't come when they're having sex with partners or maybe it takes hours
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.42,0:03:53.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I would just say keep trying, keep exploring and think about what makes you feel good
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.44,0:03:59.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but like take time to enjoy and be mindful about the other really hot parts of sex that feel really good for you
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.89,0:04:01.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Yeah totally
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.47,0:04:05.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Okay, "I'm a fat female assigned genderqueer pansexual
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.98,0:04:06.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Hot
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.89,0:04:11.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: I am sexually attracted to men and often fantasize about having sex with men
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.51,0:04:14.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when having sex with a man I don't enjoy it one bit.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.39,0:04:18.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've only been men sexually and only a handful at that. Have I just not had enough sex
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.59,0:04:24.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or am I maybe not as attracted to men as I think? Is my poor self image the issue?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.84,0:04:29.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can masturbate and orgasm from thinking about being with a man but when its really happening,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.02,0:04:32.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a dead fish. Advice?"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.76,0:04:35.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: We do have advice
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.19,0:04:43.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um, I think that like, its an important thing to remember that um, fantasy, like, versus reality,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.87,0:04:49.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,those are two very different things and like, that's why its fantasy
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.16,0:04:55.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So like, if just because you're like hot for men and you fantasize about it, maybe it doesn't
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.61,0:05:01.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,necessarily mean that will like resonate with the real sex that you want to have.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.53,0:05:06.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I would just like, keep that in mind first of all
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.01,0:05:10.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If it doesn't feel good, don't do it. That's what I would say first
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.08,0:05:16.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Yeah and I think, it could be like, something that's really sexy to fantasize about but isn't
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.35,0:05:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something you want to do in real life
Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.88,0:05:21.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It could be that you just haven't been with the right partner
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.43,0:05:26.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,um like, fantasy is a like a perfect way to explore your desires, so
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.45,0:05:33.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take yourself out on a date honey, like sit down with yourself and think about the kind
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.63,0:05:35.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of sex that you want to be having with these men
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.53,0:05:39.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what kind of sex in these fantasies gets you going and is that reflective of the kind of sex you're having
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.51,0:05:41.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in reality with them?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.01,0:05:43.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If its not, maybe you need someone you feel more comfortable with
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.63,0:05:47.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your poor self image, like you said, might be the issue, because if you're just focusing on your
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.93,0:05:52.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how your body looks and you can't just kind of let go and be in the moment, that might be
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.73,0:05:58.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hindering you from experiencing that moment in the way that you should be
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.46,0:06:04.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: One like, good thing to try would be like, exploring sex with people of different genders
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.78,0:06:07.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and like seeing, how that feels for you
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.65,0:06:13.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and also maybe exploring gender roleplay with those partners is also a thing
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.03,0:06:14.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Okaaaay!
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.12,0:06:18.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Right? Let's get kinky, let's get creative!
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.92,0:06:22.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you're doing right now doesn't work so if you're going to continue that way, it will continue to
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.82,0:06:24.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not work
Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.03,0:06:28.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Let's take a moment to process
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.42,0:06:30.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And scene
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.92,0:06:32.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Okay um
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.62,0:06:36.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Sometimes I pee when I come. I rub my G [stumbling on words]
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.70,0:06:38.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one more time
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.57,0:06:46.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"sometimes I pee when I come. I rub my G-Spot hard and well, sometimes I squirt.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.97,0:06:53.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But usually I pee. It makes me feel stupid and embarrassed. Please any advice on how to avoid
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.42,0:06:55.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this? Is it normal?"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.48,0:07:01.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Well, first of all I would like to apologize for the weird faces I was making during that
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.68,0:07:06.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,question. I was like, "ooohh yeah do you rub it hard and well??"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.48,0:07:09.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, going to try and keep those in check
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.64,0:07:14.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is normal. I do think that there are a lot of misconceptions about squirting
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.97,0:07:17.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we are here to clear the air
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.60,0:07:20.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: We reject that
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.05,0:07:24.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: And reject that. We're just going to say different things at the same time
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.72,0:07:32.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um the gland, that the fluid comes out of is called, maybe its a duct, who the fuck cares
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.29,0:07:34.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Its called the Skene Duct or Gland
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.46,0:07:37.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Its the Skene Gland
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.29,0:07:42.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: That's where your ejaculate comes from, into the world and um in those moments,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.91,0:07:46.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sometimes there's a little bit of pee in there, so it can smell like pee
Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.37,0:07:49.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it can also feel a lot like you're going to pee but its not really pee
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.53,0:07:50.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: You're not peeing
Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.62,0:07:54.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: The other thing about pee, is that its totally sterile until the moment it leaves your urethra
Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.99,0:08:01.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so people shouldn't shame other people for that, its just normal and there's just a little pee in it
Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.32,0:08:09.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Also like if you want to avoid that, its just a really good practice to pee before and after sex
Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.76,0:08:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because it could just get rid of that for you, if you already peed, how much pee could you produce
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.73,0:08:19.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before and during lovemaking
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.49,0:08:25.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But also, if you pee afterwards, you avoid a UTI
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.64,0:08:31.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you wouldn't get a Urinary Tract Infection and you just also phew, wiped that off your list of
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.44,0:08:34.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things to worry about
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.04,0:08:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: You are in a Win Win Situation
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.30,0:08:39.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Squirting is totally normal for some people
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.01,0:08:41.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Its super hot
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.93,0:08:42.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Its hot
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.98,0:08:43.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bear down
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.100,0:08:46.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On to my next selection
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.25,0:08:50.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm 22 and was raised to keep my sexual feelings a secret. I'm straight and its been a year
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.36,0:08:54.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since I've last had sex. I absolutely hate masturbating and I hate achieving orgasm
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.10,0:08:58.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What advice would you give to anyone facing these issues?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.02,0:09:05.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Well, um I would say that's really unfortunate you were raised to feel shameful about sex
Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.68,0:09:12.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Starting there, it would probably behoove you to see a counseler
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.60,0:09:17.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because like, that's something you need to unpack and heal from
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.43,0:09:21.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because that could really fuck with the way you fuck right?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.72,0:09:27.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I would see a counseler. I don't think anything's wrong with you, I just think that its
Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.46,0:09:29.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,good to talk about those with a professional
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.80,0:09:32.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While we're very goodlooking, we're not professionals
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.70,0:09:36.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: I really just want to add, because this a little bit more of a serious question
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.85,0:09:40.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We, I think that many of us, were raised to keep our sexual feelings a secret
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.88,0:09:46.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This could be about our parents, this could be about culture or religion or so many things
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.93,0:09:50.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the social climate that we live in
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.12,0:09:52.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think that there's nothing wrong with that
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.42,0:09:56.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like Jessica said counselling can really help if you want to create space to open up and begin
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.63,0:10:01.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to talk about that and if sex is something you want and you feel like this is an issue
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.13,0:10:04.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for you, that is something you could focus on
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.53,0:10:08.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other thing that this kind of made me think of is, maybe you're asexual
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.24,0:10:11.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe you're not, maybe that doesn't resonate with you
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.10,0:10:16.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there are tons of asexual people out there and expeiences that asexual people have
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.29,0:10:23.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are really varied, but not enjoying masturbation or kind of feeling not into sex
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.17,0:10:29.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is totally normal for some people so we'll post some resources below and you can check that out
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.61,0:10:32.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether or not that resonates with you is totally up to you
Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.64,0:10:37.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So good luck and just continue to think about this and write about it and explore what's there for you
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.38,0:10:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Be gentle with yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.43,0:10:41.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: And be gentle with yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.59,0:10:43.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Yes
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.23,0:10:49.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"So I'm a 19 year old virgin but I'm aching to have sex with a man. I've always told myself
Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.46,0:10:53.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through all the other nonsense I will do with my life, I just want to wait to have
Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.60,0:10:58.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sex with a man but now I'm starting to question my old values.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.16,0:11:03.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am so confused about if I want to throw caution to the wind and have sex with a man
Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.23,0:11:09.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't love for the first time. But I feel like I've come so far that I might regret it if
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.15,0:11:14.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do. Then again, the horniness is OVERCOMING me. Help!"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.51,0:11:17.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Well those are some strong words
Dialogue: 0,0:11:17.96,0:11:20.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: So you want to have sex with a man
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.43,0:11:23.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Is what we're hearing
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.11,0:11:27.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Masturbation right now definitely is an option
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.98,0:11:32.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: That's sex with a hand or tools
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.05,0:11:35.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: You know, your hand can be a man if you want it to
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.73,0:11:39.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Anything can be a man if you want it to
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.93,0:11:45.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Okay so I got to be real with you
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.98,0:11:50.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Virginity, as a construct, as a like a word, as a like...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.52,0:11:53.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Idea
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.30,0:11:58.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Idea, is really loaded with a lot of negative things that I find to be negative
Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.57,0:12:04.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First of all, virginity is like, its something that's more targeted towards heterosexual cis people
Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.65,0:12:11.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and its very loaded in terms of, you know, a virgin is somebody who's pure and like
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.47,0:12:18.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know, a whore is somebody who's fucked a lot and a whore is somebody who isn't valued in our culture
Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.48,0:12:20.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: And enjoys sex
Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.50,0:12:25.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: And I think that its really important to acknowledge that virginity excludes
Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.29,0:12:30.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a lot of desires, a lot of genders and a lot of bodies
Dialogue: 0,0:12:30.75,0:12:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So maybe the terminology that we're going to use is "choosing to have sex for the first time"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.30,0:12:43.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think that there are a lot of things to consider, but the #1 thing that I would say is maybe your values
Dialogue: 0,0:12:43.72,0:12:50.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have changed. You're 19 now, its fine for you to make those decisions and it looks
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.42,0:12:54.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you're trying to make sure this decision is an informed one and so
Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.79,0:12:58.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Good on ya
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.84,0:13:00.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Good on ya
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.04,0:13:07.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: I would think about, what about your values um, like celebrates this waiting idea
Dialogue: 0,0:13:07.29,0:13:13.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what it means to have sex for the first time and like, also I would just like write
Dialogue: 0,0:13:13.92,0:13:20.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while thinking about that, write a list of Pros and Cons and you can just like make sure that
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.46,0:13:22.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,decision IS an informed one
Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.84,0:13:27.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Having sex for the first time is like a big deal but also not a big time
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.36,0:13:33.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: There are so many romance myths in our culture about like what that's going to
Dialogue: 0,0:13:33.02,0:13:39.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,look like and Honey, we don't talk about pleasure, or sex or consent in the ways that
Dialogue: 0,0:13:39.77,0:13:45.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we need to so its not going to be like a Harlequin Romance novel
Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.59,0:13:47.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,More likely than not
Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.11,0:13:49.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: It might be though and that's the thing
Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.79,0:13:55.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It might be like that for you, you'll never know until you try
Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.03,0:14:01.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But also like, respect what you're feeling and listen to yourself and also set up a support system
Dialogue: 0,0:14:01.28,0:14:08.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for yourself whether or not you choose to have sex right now or like when this big thing
Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.74,0:14:12.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happens where you understand that its the right time for you
Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.28,0:14:20.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have somebody there so that you're having informed, safe consensual healthy pleasurable sex
Dialogue: 0,0:14:20.48,0:14:26.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that you have somebody to talk to before and after about it
Dialogue: 0,0:14:26.34,0:14:31.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even if you don't love this partner, if you decide to have sex with somebody that you don't love
Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.43,0:14:34.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,make sure that its with somebody you respect and who respects you
Dialogue: 0,0:14:34.41,0:14:39.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Yeah and I think its totally possible for you to have really really good hot sex
Dialogue: 0,0:14:39.40,0:14:41.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with somebody that you're not in love with
Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.93,0:14:43.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Both: Good luck and take care of yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.88,0:14:46.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And CUT! Taaaake 4!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.38,0:14:48.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: NEWSFLASH!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.33,0:14:51.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We just received a question
Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.37,0:14:53.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Hot off the presses!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.51,0:14:57.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: As we were filming and we want to answer it
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.01,0:15:00.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Get over here right now
Dialogue: 0,0:15:00.61,0:15:02.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: It says, let me just put on my reading glasses
Dialogue: 0,0:15:02.80,0:15:06.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, " Hello you two"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:06.36,0:15:09.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I need like...can you read that?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:09.01,0:15:11.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Are we reading this one Honey?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:11.55,0:15:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's not the one we're reading!
Dialogue: 0,0:15:13.78,0:15:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's about ageplay
Dialogue: 0,0:15:15.80,0:15:18.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Ageplay is for another episode
Dialogue: 0,0:15:18.12,0:15:20.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Reeeady, Take 5!
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.55,0:15:24.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: "Hi I need your advice. I'm a very unique fat goth"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:24.95,0:15:26.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get it
Dialogue: 0,0:15:26.38,0:15:29.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Tall fat Goth
Dialogue: 0,0:15:29.12,0:15:30.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Oh oops, unique, fat, tall Goth
Dialogue: 0,0:15:30.03,0:15:31.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Call me Girl!
Dialogue: 0,0:15:31.92,0:15:35.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Um I love a unique fat tall Goth
Dialogue: 0,0:15:35.93,0:15:39.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"My problem is that I'm 22 years old and I've never been kissed. No one has ever shown
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.67,0:15:42.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interest in me, I've never been able to date
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.02,0:15:46.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't help that when I ask my friends for advice, they say "don't be so scary and intimidating"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.28,0:15:47.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: RUDE
Dialogue: 0,0:15:47.42,0:15:49.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: RUDE, so offended right now
Dialogue: 0,0:15:49.50,0:15:54.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm not going to change who I am just to seem appealing [Good for you]
Dialogue: 0,0:15:54.27,0:15:57.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I always feel so left out when men flock to my friends because they're more beautiful
Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.90,0:15:59.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than me. What do you think?"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:59.78,0:16:01.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Get a grip!
Dialogue: 0,0:16:01.50,0:16:03.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First of all, get new friends
Dialogue: 0,0:16:03.92,0:16:04.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Outraged
Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.85,0:16:07.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Also call us, like
Dialogue: 0,0:16:07.62,0:16:10.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Call Jay Will
Dialogue: 0,0:16:10.90,0:16:12.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Our cinematographer is going like this right now
Dialogue: 0,0:16:12.53,0:16:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Part of this about community, finding the right community
Dialogue: 0,0:16:15.00,0:16:16.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: You live somewhere that's wrong
Dialogue: 0,0:16:16.67,0:16:21.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Because, there are for sure spaces where people like tall unique fat Goths
Dialogue: 0,0:16:21.22,0:16:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: They'll gobbleyou up
Dialogue: 0,0:16:23.56,0:16:29.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: So this is an Island of Misfit Toys situation
Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.84,0:16:35.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in some ways. I've felt that way and I've found it really hard to connect with people
Dialogue: 0,0:16:35.49,0:16:39.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and find people who I think are hot enough to have sex with or whatever
Dialogue: 0,0:16:39.44,0:16:41.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Both: Taaaake 6!
Dialogue: 0,0:16:41.49,0:16:47.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Okay, we live in a world where, like, basically what I'm trying to tell you
Dialogue: 0,0:16:47.55,0:16:49.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that you're not performing your femininity correctly
Dialogue: 0,0:16:49.92,0:16:54.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like men are probably scared of you, but that's really badass and really hot
Dialogue: 0,0:16:54.08,0:16:55.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Be scary!
Dialogue: 0,0:16:55.71,0:17:03.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the person who can like handle you as you are, which is a beautiful unique fat tall Goth
Dialogue: 0,0:17:03.77,0:17:06.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that like
Dialogue: 0,0:17:06.26,0:17:14.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are people who will appreciate that and be like, " damn that person's scary and unique and
Dialogue: 0,0:17:14.29,0:17:16.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're fat and they're tall and they're Goth
Dialogue: 0,0:17:16.59,0:17:18.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I LOVE IT
Dialogue: 0,0:17:18.06,0:17:19.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: And I want to fuck it out
Dialogue: 0,0:17:19.16,0:17:23.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: And I want to be romantic or fuck
Dialogue: 0,0:17:23.84,0:17:25.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: make love
Dialogue: 0,0:17:25.15,0:17:30.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Or do something that you want to do also, 22 year old unique fat tall Goth
Dialogue: 0,0:17:30.28,0:17:37.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're going to be like "I want to respect that person. I want that person to be themselves
Dialogue: 0,0:17:37.85,0:17:40.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I love them and I'm hot for it"
Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.99,0:17:45.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So just um, do you and um, find new friends
Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.92,0:17:48.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they SUCK probably
Dialogue: 0,0:17:48.30,0:17:54.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Like that's really shitty and I would say find groups of people who are like
Dialogue: 0,0:17:54.97,0:17:58.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interested in the same things you are because you can create spaces where being tall unique
Dialogue: 0,0:17:58.72,0:18:01.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fat and Goth are like things that are valued and I think that
Dialogue: 0,0:18:01.07,0:18:03.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Online dating!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:03.22,0:18:06.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Flock to your nearest online dating website
Dialogue: 0,0:18:06.15,0:18:08.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like Plentyoffish, Okcupid, whatever
Dialogue: 0,0:18:08.80,0:18:12.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You guys can call us for the sponsorships later and give us all your money
Dialogue: 0,0:18:12.15,0:18:16.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Or call us for our Babybear's number
Dialogue: 0,0:18:16.62,0:18:21.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Westcoastdreams, they're single!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:21.88,0:18:27.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Okay, yeah I would say hit up online dating because online dating gives
Dialogue: 0,0:18:27.19,0:18:32.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you a chance to like, be like, this is who I am, these are the things I'm interested in
Dialogue: 0,0:18:32.70,0:18:37.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people can like see that and be like, "I'm going to read about this person"
Dialogue: 0,0:18:37.15,0:18:38.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: That's how we met
Dialogue: 0,0:18:38.92,0:18:40.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Not on online dating but on Tumblr
Dialogue: 0,0:18:40.52,0:18:43.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: On Tumblr! That's online dating for some people
Dialogue: 0,0:18:43.67,0:18:46.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: Which is basically my online dating profile
Dialogue: 0,0:18:46.22,0:18:48.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Yeah so Good Luck, keep your chin up
Dialogue: 0,0:18:48.66,0:18:51.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Westcoastdreams (.tumblr.com)
Dialogue: 0,0:18:51.60,0:18:53.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: We love you
Dialogue: 0,0:18:53.47,0:18:54.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Love you
Dialogue: 0,0:18:54.52,0:18:56.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majestic: We believe in all of you
Dialogue: 0,0:18:56.46,0:18:58.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Send us your questions, we want to get inebriated and answer them
Dialogue: 0,0:18:58.66,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jessica: Yeah love you bye